Friday, March 18, 2011

Playing 'Catch Up'

It is time for a quick game of 'Catch Up'. Here is what has been happening at Oasis of Hope since our last post:

Hoping For Change Program

The 'Hoping for Change' participants really came through! Over $2,000 in pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters (and strangely... 1 silver dollar) was collected in December- just in time to give the kids at Oasis of Hope a great Christmas.

Allison Hibbard and I sat outside of a Starbucks in Lake Forest on a sunny Saturday and collected the over 200 pounds of change collected by the truly awesome young men and women who had faithfully deposited their pocket change into official and unofficial change jars for the past several months.

It was a day full of sunshine, memories, coffee and endless counting, counting, counting as the change piled up. is a shout out to Matt Gillen, Andrew Drey, Allison Hibbard, Sasha Hagenlock, Ryan Hacker, Taylor Shanton, Alex Phillips, The Frum Family, Jessica Powers, Phil Chenery, Cody Fields, Cory Tomlinson, Hannah Grady, David Hughes, Bre Dougherty; Pastor Steve, Connie and Caroline Rutenbar, John Corona, Jeff Burt and Teve Fulton who saved up their coins for the kids at Oasis.

An unexpected surprise were the visits by long-time Oasis friends Don and Karoline Thompson, Jaclyn Grant, Debbie Trentacost, and Julie Hibbard who came by to not only say 'Hi', but to drop off donation checks for Oasis. They all left with their own 'Hoping for Change' jars as well!

Now if we could just figure out what to do with the pile of Kenyan shillings, Mexican Pesos, Ukrainian Kopiyka and the mysterious bullet shell that came out of Pastor Steve's jar! I'm sure his next jar will contain Haitian and Japanese coins as well!

Oasis of Hope's dearest friend: Pastor Steve Rutenbar

Allison Hibbard, Matt Gillen and Andrew Drey counting coins

Phil Chenery, Taylor Shanton and Ryan Hacker with Pastor Steve

If you have a full jar of change ready to donate or would like to receive an official 'Hoping for Change' jar - write to Lydia at

Christmas at Oasis of Hope

Christmas at Oasis means a new set of clothes, a special meal, and getting to watch a movie!

Thanks to the 'Hoping for Change' donations and the gifts of several other dear friends of Oasis...we were able to make sure that the children of Oasis had their special day again this year.

Here are some of the photos Christmas at Oasis 2010:

The 'great hall' is filled with happy children dressed in their new Christmas outfits!

Little girls everywhere love new dresses!

Hundreds and hundreds of Chapati flatbreads were prepared by the staff of Oasis to top the Christmas beef stew and rice that made up a very special (and filling!) Christmas meal served to the children of Oasis of Hope.

Headmaster Joseph reads the Christmas letter from Lydia before the showing of the movie.

Over 200 children received new Christmas outfits!

The teen boys from Group Homes 1 and 2 are happy to pose for the camera wearing their cool new Christmas outfits! (Oasis of Hope's Managing Director Geoffrey Okumu is in the center of the photo)

Six new High Schoolers!

The results of the annual Kenya Primary Certification Exam (KPCE) arrived in late December. This rigorous 3-day exam is given to all Class 8 students in Kenya in late November. Six of the eight Oasis of Hope students who took the exam passed and became candidates for High School.

The competition to be admitted to a good high school is fierce- but, by the end of January 2011- all six of the Oasis 'candidates': Steward, Shaaban, Edwin, Moses, Paul and Nancy were making preparations to begin their new lives boarding at 4 different schools in Western Kenya.

Can't you just feel the excitement and the nervousness that these boys are feeling as the get ready to register for school?

Paul, Edwin, Moses and Steward make one last check that they have all the 'boarding supplies' required by their schools.

Steward, Edwin and Paul pose proudly in the uniform of their new school: Kabuwefwe Boys High School. Finally, they get to wear the long trousers of a high school student! No more Primary school shorts!

Paul, Moses, Edwin and Steward pose with Olivia Okumu as they get ready to go to their respective schools for registration day.

Steward sits at a high school desk for the first time!

Moses is lucky. He is enrolling at Kamusinde High School where his 'brother' Kevin (now a 2nd year student) will show him around and introduce him to his fellow students.

*Note: as soon as photos of Nancy and Shaaban are available- I will post those too.

It's Camp time again!

When the calendar page turns to February it can only mean one thing to the kids at Oasis: Saddleback Camp! Once again this year, our wonderful friends from Saddleback Church's HSM (high school ministry) led by Katie Edwards, Ryanne Witt and Josh Griffin brought a team of High Schoolers to Oasis of Hope to put on what has become the favorite event of the year.

The three days of camp were filled with games, crafts, Bible Stories, skits and FUN! I wish I could post photos from the camp - but unfortunately, Geoffrey's camera died right before camp began. I'd love it if some of the camp participants emailed some of their favorite pics to me at so that I could give a visual of the great time that was had by everybody during these 3 amazing days (hint, hint!).

On behalf everyone at Oasis, I want to give a big THANK-YOU to all of you that love Oasis and who show your love by visiting, giving to, praying for and spreading the word about Oasis of Hope! And if you are reading this...I'd love it if you left a comment!

Mungu akubariki sana....May God bless you very much!

Friday, December 3, 2010

Oasis of Hope is...... "Hoping for Change"

When Oasis was born back in 2004- our dream was to be able to help the street children, orphans and vulnerable kids of Kitale. We reached out to children who slept on the street at night, to children who slept in tiny mud huts in the slums surrounding Kitale. We reached out to kids that couldn't go to school because despite Kenya's "free" public school laws-they didn't have money to buy a uniform. We reached out to children who are the cast-offs, the unwanteds, the ones that Jesus called the 'least of these'. We reached out and they came.

They came from the middle of Kitale town and they came from the slums. These slums have names like Namanjalala, Matisi, Tuani and Shimo la Tewa...musical names that roll off of the tongue - but, in actuality places where no child should live. These are slums full of violence and hunger and sadness.

Oasis of Hope was formed to be exactly what its name implies - an OASIS from the struggles that no child should have to contend with. And so, six years later - over 200 children eat, and have decent clothes to wear, are receiving an education and are routinely cured from illnesses like malaria and typhoid that most likely would have killed them had they not come to Oasis of Hope.

When we began this venture, we knew that we were following God's call on our hearts to help the children of Kitale, Kenya. And when we succeeded in doing this - we rejoiced! But, sometimes when you set out to do one thing - there are other happy results that you never anticipated.

Since the doors of Oasis opened in September of 2004 - well over 500 visitors from American, England, Germany, Mexico, Holland and other parts of the globe have come through the doors of the Children's Centre thinking that they were there to 'help'. And help they did. But, they also went home profoundly changed. As I always say to people who mention that they want to visit Africa, "Be very, very sure before you go. Because there is no such thing as going to Africa once. Your life will be never be the same and you need to be ready for that before you go."

Oasis has taught people that joy is something that can be felt in the most humble of circumstances. The people - especially the children- of Kenya are joyous. They have so little.... much less than the average American would be comfortable with. And yet, there is that pervasive joy....and the kind of faith that we rarely see in our busy, technology-filled, too-much-stuff lives. Hundreds of people have told me that going to Oasis was a turning point in their lives. They have told me that the children of Oasis - in their humble poverty and illuminating joy taught them more about the gigantic love that God has for us than anything else that they had ever experienced.

Over half of these visitors have been teenagers and young adults from Saddleback Church. They come with the Saddleback HSM and Wildside Ministries to put on an annual 3-day 'camp' at Oasis. It is 3 days of games and crafts and singing. It may not sound like much - but to the kids at Oasis of Hope it is a trip to Disneyland and Santa Claus and Heaven all rolled into one. Saddleback has put on this camp every year for the past 6 years and some of the Oasis kids have had the joy of attending all 6 times. For kids whose lives consist mostly of a kind of poverty that we can barely imagine - the 6 years of 'camp' memories to savor and remember are quite possibly the very best memories of their lives.

But, it isn't just the kids at Oasis of Hope who take memories away from camp. The Junior High and High School Students go home with new eyes and new hearts and a burning desire to go back to Kitale and to Oasis of Hope as soon as they can.

Over the past 3 summers- Saddleback Church has also held the Kitale Leadership Institute where up to 20 College aged young adults have spent 2-3 months in Kitale. Oasis of Hope has been the central meeting place for their summer ministry and I have been amazed to see how God has changed the hearts of these students. They came to Kitale for a summer adventure and to 'help' people and they leave utterly transformed - with broken hearts and eyes that have been completely opened to God's love, mercy and grace.

I have come to expect the emails and the Facebook posts from the students upon their return. " I love Oasis...I love those kids....I can't wait to go back.....I want to help." And so, this spring, when a new group of students flew back from Kitale - there was an Oasis of Hope USA event planned and waiting for them.

The "Hoping for Change" program was born! On a sunny April morning, over 50 high school and college students who had been to Oasis of Hope sometime over the past 5 years, along with seasoned Oasis of Hope veterans: Allison Hibbard, Chris Wohlers, Matt Gillen and Pastor Steve Rutenbar joined with me to put on the first Oasis of Hope event here in the US. A pancake breakfast was mixed with a slide show and photos and graphic representations of the programs at Oasis. A presentation about these programs and their costs and the need for young advocates for the children at Oasis was met with enthusiasm.

Each guest took home at least one "Hoping for Change" jar to collect their spare pocket change at the end of each day. But, more than money - a label on the jar and a photo of an Oasis child on top of each jar requested that the students pray for their child, for Oasis of Hope, for Kitale and for Kenya. It was a wonderful event full of memories, stories and a shared love of Oasis.

These are difficult times all over the world. The U.S. economy has struggled and worsened over the past 3 years. The rest of the world struggles with us. When millions of formerly employed Americans lose their jobs and their homes and their comfortable lifestyles - charitable giving all but vanishes from their spending. And like most other non-profit organizations - Oasis of Hope has seen a dramatic decline in donations as well. The "Hoping for Change" program was formed to show that a lot of people joining forces to give a little bit can combine to make a huge impact.

And we were correct. The Friday after Thanksgiving - almost 7 months after the first event- Allison and I sat at the Starbucks in Foothill Ranch hoping that our last minute Facebook announcement directed at the students who would be home for Thanksgiving would result in lots and lots of change being turned in.

We weren't disappointed. In the 5 hours that we sat in the sun, delighted to greet one member of the Oasis of Hope 'family' after another - over 2,000 dollars in change (about 120 lbs!) was delivered by these same students who had taken the jars home seven months before. Many had re-filled their jars several times over the months. And when we were done, we realized that even with the giant mountain of change sitting in front of us - at least half of the jars were still waiting to be collected! We are hoping to get the students who have been collecting change to bring that change in this coming week. In fact, Allison will be at the High School Ministry Church Service at Saddleback on Saturday night and we are reaching out to all "Hoping for Change" participants to put their change in a ziplock bag with their names written on the outside of the bag to come and drop off their change with Allison.

We have dedicated this change to Christmas 2010 at Oasis of Hope. Camp is special at Oasis - but Christmas is even better! Christmas means a new set of clothes, new shoes, a special meal and a party complete with a movie! This has been a hard year at Oasis in terms of funding and as difficult as money is right now - we don't want to cancel Christmas at Oasis.

It took us a while to think of the name "Hoping for Change". Believe me, we came up with a lot of silly names before we hit on this one. It expresses exactly where we are right now with Oasis. Yes, we are hoping that we get a bunch of coins in. But, even more...we are hoping and praying to change the lives of the street kids of Kitale, Kenya. And, we are praying and hoping that the economy of our country changes so that people feel that they can begin giving again.

The Hoping for Change program proved our point. Many people working together to share a small bit of of the blessing of their lives (and we all still have so many blessings despite these difficult times) can combine to produce a miracle....a Christmas Miracle, in fact!

As I said in the beginning of this post - We set out to positively change the lives of children of Kitale. The added bonus was that we were also able to do the same for hundreds of youth in America. Isn't that exactly what God's love looks like?

From the Oasis Family to your family....Merry Christmas ...... Hoping for Change.